I quit! My job earns me $2000 every month!

I quit my job for my health and happiness

  To whoever is reading this, I believe you're experiencing a breakdown either mentally or physically, or maybe you're simply looking for changes. TRUST ME! I understand how you feel right now, and if you need help deciding when to leave or whether I should leave, please look through this. Hopefully, my mental path will help you out! 

1. Find out the reason why you're feeling bad

  There could be several reasons why you want to leave the job right now. For me, it's the general environment, and it has been months in which I feel what I do has become more than just a job, it has become the only thing I think about throughout the day! I do recommend you to dig deep inside of your own mind, and try to find the real reason why you wanna quit and think about what changes you're looking for. 

2. Be honest with yourself

  Sometimes feelings can be deceiving, it might be a bit difficult for you to accept that there's something I did wrong in my current job and there is something I've done that's not perfect. It's TOTALLY NORMAL to think that way because there is something called "shame", which means you're a quite awesome person since you wanna be good, and when the standard is not met, you feel "shame"! However, that's something you set for yourself. You need to realize that you will not laugh at yourself, just tell yourself how you really feel and make decisions based on it. 

3. Take time to pave a future for yourself

How can I tell where my future goes to? Let me share my story with you. when I was in college, I made a video for myself: What kind of person will I be in 5 years?  

"I wanna be at grad school"

"I need a boyfriend that helps me become a better person"

"I wanna live far away from my family"

"I wanna earn enough money and spend it all on traveling" 

"I'm gonna"regret it so much if I don't live this way

(In Singapore watching the Eras Tour)

  This was generally a summary of the video I made, I really want to tell this story to everyone because this has firmly become a belief. I simply became "ME" without thinking too much about it. You need to figure out your future by yourself and live for it! Think about whether this job you're taking is helpful. Just take your time and think about you real goal! Never forget about who you are and who you wanna be. 

4. When do I know that's time to leave? 

  From my experience growing up taking care of other people's feelings, my point of view is nobody goes before your own happiness. And the next thing I realized was never put your success in the hand of others. When you can not control what's happening with yourself, then it's time to leave. SUPER EASY! Just remember, jobs are everywhere, you could be a chef, you could be a worker, you could be a nurse, you could be everything! But you only live once, however long you wasted your time thinking about those useless things, however long you wasted your life enjoy being who you are. 

  All in all, I wanna say that this world is a mere complexity where people' feelings and all those resentful affairs got mixed up. But there is nothing more important than being a happy person and the self that you are the whole time.